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Where Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is easier to find than ..
Where Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is easier to find than most guys expect. The inner labia (lips) form a hood just over the clitoris, which is a small bud that slightly protrudes outward. The clitoral hood protects the clitoris from direct stimulation. With at least 15,000 nerve endings concentrated into one area, direct contact can be understandably intense.
Don't think that if it worked the first three times, it will..
Don't think that if it worked the first three times, it will work the next three times. What turns her on may depend on her mood, and where she is in her monthly cycle. Perhaps her nipples are more sensitive or her genitals are less tingly. Pay attention to your partner.
Dune date ? How would you fuck me in the dunes ? On a blanke..
Dune date ? How would you fuck me in the dunes ? On a blanket under the stars ? On top of your RZR ? In the back of your truck ?
Where Is The G-Spot? Finding the G-spot is a little harder ..
Where Is The G-Spot? Finding the G-spot is a little harder than finding the clitoris. This slightly raised, slightly bumpy spot lies in the inner upper wall of the vagina, and not every female can pinpoint exactly where the spot is located, but trial and error is a lot of fun during foreplay.
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it’s useful to u..
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it’s useful to understand your own desires and your own limits and boundaries. A great way to do that is by completing a yes/no/maybe list. The concept is simple — go through a list of different sex acts and indicate yes, no, or maybe as to whether you’re interested in doing them. If you’re in a relationship, this gives you the opportunity to each complete the l...
Your freakiest sex fantasies are only a slightly awkward con..
Your freakiest sex fantasies are only a slightly awkward conversation away... As human beings, we fear rejection, especially of the genital kind. The stone-cold fact is that some people are freaks and some people are not, so "ordering off the secret menu" requires three things: intuition, honesty, and being chill. Intuition means treating anybody you're having sex with like a rattlesnake. Not that they&...
Seduction is as important as, or sometimes more important th..
Seduction is as important as, or sometimes more important than, technique. It helps to know what kind of turn-on your partner likes, whether it’s oral, visual, or mental. Does your partner like it when you talk dirty over the phone or text? Trace your finger slowly up her chest? Flirt with her at a bar?” Also, if you like what you see, say so. Let a woman know how desirable she is
Sex and music are two of the biggest stress relievers
Sex and music are two of the biggest stress relievers
We've called the cock ring the "superfood of sex toys" becau..
We've called the cock ring the "superfood of sex toys" because it's cheap, easy to use, and can benefit your sex life in so many ways. A snug ring that fits around the base of your penis (and sometimes your testicles, too), it can strengthen your erection, boost your confidence, and make your orgasms more powerful. Opt for a vibrating option, and it could even help stimulate your partner's clitori...
Because exercise is known to produce feel-good endorphins an..
Because exercise is known to produce feel-good endorphins and lower cortisol levels, working out reduces stress and, in turn, helps maintain a healthy sex drive. Dr. Penhollow points out that exercise is known to reduce depression as well, which is another condition that can have a negative effect on your libido.
Strength training, Kegels, yoga, walking, and swimming may a..
Strength training, Kegels, yoga, walking, and swimming may all improve sexual function and libido in both men and women. One-time acute exercise sessions seem to boost sexual arousal via activation of the sympathetic nervous system, but it's unclear whether this finding holds in habitual exercisers
Take time to know yourself. "Know thyself" said Aristotle. W..
Take time to know yourself. "Know thyself" said Aristotle. When you know who you are, you can be wise about your goals, your dreams, your standards, your convictions. Knowing who you are allows you to live your life with purpose and meaning.
Be adventurous. Maybe you’ve never had sex on the living roo..
Be adventurous. Maybe you’ve never had sex on the living room floor or in a secluded spot in the woods; now might be the time to try it. Or try exploring erotic books and films. Even just the feeling of naughtiness you get from renting an X-rated movie might make you feel frisky.
Use alcohol in moderation. Some men with erectile dysfunctio..
Use alcohol in moderation. Some men with erectile dysfunction find that having one drink can help them relax, but heavy use of alcohol can make matters worse. Alcohol can inhibit sexual reflexes by dulling the central nervous system. Drinking large amounts over a long period can damage the liver, leading to an increase in estrogen production in men. In women, alcohol can trigger hot flashes and disrupt sleep, compoun...
Physical activity is first and foremost among the healthy be..
Physical activity is first and foremost among the healthy behaviors that can improve your sexual functioning. Because physical arousal depends greatly on good flow, aerobic exercise (which strengthens your heart and vessels) is crucial. And exercise offers a wealth of other health benefits, from staving off heart disease, osteoporosis, and some forms of cancer to improving your mood and helping you get a better nigh...
Maintain physical affection. Even if you’re tired, tense, or..
Maintain physical affection. Even if you’re tired, tense, or upset about the problem, engaging in kissing and cuddling is essential for maintaining an emotional and physical bond.
Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under ..
Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances. When sexual problems occur, feelings of hurt, shame, guilt, and resentment can halt conversation altogether. Because good communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship, establishing a dialogue is the first step not only to a better sex life, but also to a closer emotional bond.
The key to a great marriage – keep the fights clean and the ..
The key to a great marriage – keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.
Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be ..
Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.
Shifting the focus off of evaluating your performance and on..
Shifting the focus off of evaluating your performance and onto enjoying the sensations you’re experiencing is one of the keys to great sex. Live in the moment and think about the journey as a whole instead of mentally fixating on one destination: orgasm. Try to be present at every stage of the process from foreplay to climax and beyond. If you or your partner get stuck somewhere along the way—for example, perh...
The myth that bigger is better costs countless men sexual se..
The myth that bigger is better costs countless men sexual self-confidence and self-esteem. There's countless articles promising pro tips on how to compensate for your average-sized cock. And the message that I want to tell people is that there’s no need to compensate! You are not sexually broken. You are good enough. Love the penis you have. It’s not just a size issue, either. Guys often extend mistaking a b...
Good sex is about pleasure, but it’s possible for that to ge..
Good sex is about pleasure, but it’s possible for that to get lost in the shuffle. It may sound counterintuitive, but some guys get so focused on being “good” at sex that they forget to enjoy themselves and that can mean that it’s hard for their partners to have fun, too. If you’re so focused on making your partner cum that you make them feel tense or stressed out, that’s not a recipe for good sex! Inst...
As Cardi B says “Put this pussy right in your face/Swipe yo..
As Cardi B says “Put this pussy right in your face/Swipe your nose like a credit card.” You should be using more than just your tongue. You need to get your whole face in there...If a filmmaker were capturing the event, very little would be seen beyond the still back of your head.
Ideally, you want your partner lying flat on their back, leg..
Ideally, you want your partner lying flat on their back, legs spread but not too far apart. As a rule, her legs should always be closer together than farther apart, as she needs the full command of her pelvic muscles, Also, the back arch that we’ve all been taught is “sexy” according to porn and movies is actually not what aroused people do, and can cut off flow to the vagina and hamper breathing, both of which...
The clitoris isn’t just a button above the vagina. It is, in..
The clitoris isn’t just a button above the vagina. It is, in fact, deep and wishbone shaped. What we call the clitoris is the only external part of the clitoris or the glans clitoris. I don’t tell you this to encourage you memorize anatomical charts, but to let you know that there are a whole lot of nerve endings down there that are getting ignored if you only focus on one tiny spot. Inside the legs of the wishbo...
Despite what we’ve been told, oral sex isn’t actually a part..
Despite what we’ve been told, oral sex isn’t actually a part of foreplay. You actually have to build to it. Going right into oral sex as an opening act could maybe be hot if you’re already really turned on, but that should almost never be your opening salvo. It’s really important to get the body and the nervous system sensitized to levels of arousal where that kind of direct stimulation of the clitoris is wan...
Modern life is more fast-paced than ever, and we’ve all got ..
Modern life is more fast-paced than ever, and we’ve all got a lot of day to day demands on our time. From work stresses to parental responsibilities, finance worries and important calendar dates, we could all definitely use a break every once in a while! In fact, that may well be truer than you think. Proper relaxation is key to being able to function effectively, no matter what you spend your days doing.
Don't watch too much DV porn, it can be unrealistic! We also..
Don't watch too much DV porn, it can be unrealistic! We also enjoy it when I'm on top or in reverse cowgirl with a guy holding my arms to support me. Sometimes one dick works better on the bottom than the other--be ready to try a few different positions, and when you first get them both in, just hold still and stay in deep for a bit. Start with slow motions and you're more likely to stay in as she stretch...
When in a relationship or a fantasy with one woman and two m..
When in a relationship or a fantasy with one woman and two men where both men are straight or bi you can have a lot of fun with the dvp position. I personally love DVP and Have done it frequently. Both of the men got over the penis touching very quickly... I’m talking seconds. It quickly became about the new sensations and me screaming with pleasure of having both lovers in me at the same time. Body and penis size...
Don’t be shy! Turn on the lights or put mirrors where you ca..
Don’t be shy! Turn on the lights or put mirrors where you can actually see the action. It’s arousing, sexy, and wild at the same time!




























