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When you have the opportunity to help your partner or your s..

When you have the opportunity to help your partner or your spouse with anything, make it fun. Also, take every opportunity to show them you love them and that they turn you on.

anilingus is like falling in love: it happened slowly, and t..

anilingus is like falling in love: it happened slowly, and then all at once. Rimming is the act of stimulating someone’s anus with your mouth. There’s quite a concentration of nerves back there, so the stimulation via kissing or tongue use can be equally powerful. Granted, that's not to say that it's the miracle sexual act—a rim job comes with as much risk as any other sexual act. More than anything, ...

Date night fun ! Give public sex a try. Open your blinds or ..

Date night fun ! Give public sex a try. Open your blinds or get it on in a bar bathroom, a park after dark, the guest room at a family member’s or friend’s house, or the like. The element of risk can heighten your arousal! Be cautious though. Respect those in the area you’re in, research laws and potential consequences so that you fully understand them, and take appropriate safety measures.

Erotica is powerful and can be used in a variety of ways to ..

Erotica is powerful and can be used in a variety of ways to seduce your partner. Search the web, buy a book, or write your own... and take turns narrating. Go for something you know your partner will like, or push out of your comfort zone a bit try an idea out that the two of you have never explored before.

Let your girl go out without a bra every now and then :)

Learn her erogenous zones They are: Neck Sweep of her spine ..

Learn her erogenous zones They are: Neck Sweep of her spine Breasts Armpits and crooks of her elbows Wrists, palms, and tops of fingers Hips and lower abdomen Backs of her knees Ankles, and foot arches Rub these areas. Caress them. Touch them. Cup them. Don’t squeeze unless asked. See what else you can do for her, and she’ll tell you. Everyone’s a little different. So you’ll have to figure out through trial a...

The bedroom isn’t a place to prove your masculinity Stop and..

The bedroom isn’t a place to prove your masculinity Stop and think for a minute about the toxic phrases that still surround sex. Men say things like “smash that” or “tap that” or describe sex as banging and boning. Men brag about their sexual prowess in the most violent ways, talking about how they “destroyed her.” Does this sound pleasant to you? Are you trying to satisfy your girlfriend, or send her t...

The biggest mistake anyone makes in a relationship is trying..

The biggest mistake anyone makes in a relationship is trying to read their partner’s mind. We assume what turns them on based on what we see in movies and read in books. A lot of that stuff is wrong. It was dreamed up for entertainment, not actual advice. Great sex isn’t about size or horse power. It’s about learning to use the body you’ve got, and using it well. It’s especially about learning how to use yo...

Don’t Underestimate Her Pleasure Points Our bodies are amaz..

Don’t Underestimate Her Pleasure Points Our bodies are amazing vehicles for orgasm. Many women gravitate towards clitoral stimulation as a means of achieving orgasm. Some prefer internal stimulation, more targeted towards the G-spot. There are also women who enjoy cervical stimulation, which can be delivered through deep penetration. Others prefer to access their pleasure points through anal penetration. The point...

Dabble in role play. Role play requires a strong suspension ..

Dabble in role play. Role play requires a strong suspension of disbelief, but it can also pay off in a big way. Many popular roles (boss/secretary, teacher/student, stripper/customer) play on the theme of one person being in control, while the other is at his or her mercy. These are strong dynamics, even in healthy and fun sexual relationships. They allow the woman and the man to enact their fantasies in a way that w...

Tie each other up. You don't have to use handcuffs or chains..

Tie each other up. You don't have to use handcuffs or chains to to add some kink to your sex life. You can start pretty small with some light bondage and restraint play. There is a sense of being erotically overwhelmed that comes along with being restrained, and many women find it quite passionate. Women are encouraged to understand themselves as objects of desire, and through bondage and restraint, there's a...

How to talk about kinky sex - Discuss your ideas and turn-on..

How to talk about kinky sex - Discuss your ideas and turn-ons before you hit the lights. Start the conversation over a glass of wine at dinner—or in some other setting where you’re both comfortable and relaxed. It might be easier to begin this talk with relatively tame fantasies or role-playing ideas. It may also help to ask her what she’s into first. That way, you’re making it about her desires as well as ...

Trusting in each other, exploring your boundaries with each ..

Trusting in each other, exploring your boundaries with each other, and showing your full selves to each other is the best way to create more intimacy and intensity in your relationship. Keep allowing yourselves to take these risks, and your sex life will be sizzling for decades to come.

Buy a sex toy together. Head to your local sex shop, buy som..

Buy a sex toy together. Head to your local sex shop, buy something intriguing, and then use it! If there’s no non-sleazoid sex shop in your town, buy something online together and then use it when it arrives.

Talking dirty is a skill, just like flirting, introductions,..

Talking dirty is a skill, just like flirting, introductions, and public speaking. For motivation try rehearsing the script from your favorite Hollywood sex scene in front of the mirror. Setting expectations and discussing consent can be sexy in its own way because it builds anticipation, it also ensures you’re on the same page and your partner gets that you’re nervous and need a lot of encouragement.

Work on your non-sexual touch.While this tip is more about p..

Work on your non-sexual touch.While this tip is more about putting in work while you’re not having sex, it can totally lead to an overall better sex life. Don’t reserve touching for only when you’re naked. Find a way to work in hair stroking, back rubs, hand holding, anything PG that encourages you and your partner to show physical affection for one another. You’ll learn about each others’ bodies in a way t...

Try the Kivin method. This oral sex technique for those plea..

Try the Kivin method. This oral sex technique for those pleasuring a woman has the giver approach you from the side, rather than face-on instead of licking up and down your vulva, your partner should lick side to side and straight across the clitoral hood for an orgasmic feeling.

All couples fight (it’s a part of a healthy relationship to ..

All couples fight (it’s a part of a healthy relationship to have disagreements) but what better way to get into each other’s good graces again than with some vulnerable, tender makeup sex? If that’s not your vibe, there’s also must-have-you-now standing sex against a wall for an added layer of urgency. Either way, there’s a sexy way to move on after a fight.

Just because you’ve been with your partner forever doesn’t m..

Just because you’ve been with your partner forever doesn’t mean you still can’t get butterflies for them. Refrain from jumping their bones at first sight like you normally do, and let the sexual tension build up so you can have an even more cathartic orgasm.

If you’re going to experiment with anal, anal foreplay is a ..

If you’re going to experiment with anal, anal foreplay is a must. Try giving or receiving a sacral massage, aka massaging the area just above the butt crack for 15-20 minutes. It’ll help release tension and loosen the whole area up.

Did you know that a cock ring can help you maintain an erect..

Did you know that a cock ring can help you maintain an erection? This O-shaped toy fits around your penis and helps keep the shaft engorged , where you want it. A cock ring also helps prevent venous leakage, a form of erectile dysfunction.

Many women require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm in..

Many women require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm in the first place, so while you're trying to keep your own orgasm at bay, get to work and help her find her own bliss. Whether you use your mouth, your fingers, or a toy. Knowing she’s enjoyed an orgasm may relieve some of the pressure you’re feeling to last longer in bed.

If you can feel your orgasm coming on, stop and squeeze righ..

If you can feel your orgasm coming on, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis. Apply firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger and focus the pressure on the urethra, or the tube running along the underside of the penis. The squeeze technique can help you last longer in bed.

Delaying your orgasm while masturbating can be one of the mo..

Delaying your orgasm while masturbating can be one of the most effective ways to train yourself to last longer during sex. This is also known as edging, it's one of the most common techniques for avoiding premature ejaculation. Basically, you bring yourself right to the edge of orgasm before stopping all sexual or masturbatory activity until you have your excitement under control. Practicing this technique can h...

Instead of picking one position and pounding away like the a..

Instead of picking one position and pounding away like the aforementioned jackrabbit, try alternating between a few different configurations to last longer during sex. Negotiating your bodies into new positions will let you press pause on your trip to the finish line.

There are plenty of ways to enjoy intercourse without thrust..

There are plenty of ways to enjoy intercourse without thrusting like a jackrabbit. You can massage the tip of your penis into her clitoral hood. You can focus on the nerve endings in her vaginal entrance instead of seeing how deep you can get. You can press your penis against her G-spot. Sure, throw a little thrusting in there too, but if you feel like you're about to reach the point of no return, there are ways ...