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Please don’t send us pictures of your dick taken from weird ..
Please don’t send us pictures of your dick taken from weird and scary angles. Such as looking down at your penis with your toes in the background. Or up from the base, including your tensed up face trying so hard to concentrate on bending yourself into a pretzel to take the shot. Any selfie angle from front-on or from slightly above you is preferred. You can achieve this lying down, standing or kneeling. Avoid us...
A good rule of thumb is keeping a 1:3 ratio in your dick pic..
A good rule of thumb is keeping a 1:3 ratio in your dick pic’s overall composition. To spell it out, your dick should take up a maximum 1/3 of the frame, and the rest should be some of your other body parts, like your torso and thighs. Lead with whichever is your better asset. Trust me, by using the principles of positive and negative space, you’re drawing more of our attention to yourself by zooming out a bit. Z...
Natural lighting always works best and should be your prefer..
Natural lighting always works best and should be your preference over artificial sources of lighting. It’s called golden hour for a reason. However, I am very aware that the likelihood of a daytime dick pic is relatively low. If you are getting the green light in the day, however, good for you! If you need to rely on artificial lighting, be mindful of the hue, colour and how it affects what you look like on camera...
Get Photo Ready! While we’re still on the topic of prepara..
Get Photo Ready! While we’re still on the topic of preparation, I can’t believe I have to say it: but make sure you are ‘ready’ for the snap – think along the lines of grooming and arousal. Next is how to compose the photo itself. Just because ‘dick’ is in the title, it doesn’t mean you can simply skip over every other fundamental element of photography.
One of the best parts of receiving a dick pic is the build-u..
One of the best parts of receiving a dick pic is the build-up to receiving it. Just like any sort of sexting, have fun with it, test the waters to ensure you are both keen and start slow. Pacing is crucial. Remember the thrill is in the chase, not just the end game. Men and women approach desire very differently. For women, it’s a well-rounded experience and far more than just strictly visual. What do you think a...
Dick pics have a terrible reputation because: They are sent..
Dick pics have a terrible reputation because: They are sent without our warning or consent. They are catered entirely to your POV, and not ours. They are more about you validating your size than attempting to connect with us. Why put in the effort to take a good dick pic? It’s just another type of foreplay, essentially. It’s in all of our best interests that the quality of dick pics out there improves signific...
Few sights are sexier than a beautiful woman slowly unbutton..
Few sights are sexier than a beautiful woman slowly unbuttoning her shirt. While she might not have time to take the entire thing off, pop a few of her buttons yourself to gain access to her breasts, or simply to sneak a peekaboo view during sex. Open the shirttails to twist up hard against her body. Or use the buttons to slow sex down. It’s great to learn to open buttons with your teeth if you find time to practic...
Leave her panties on. If you're really pressed for time and..
Leave her panties on. If you're really pressed for time and she's wearing a skirt, simply tug her skivvies to the side and enter her. To make things even hotter, massage her clitoris with the panties' fabric while you're thrusting.
Find easy access to her breasts. The bra is not your friend...
Find easy access to her breasts. The bra is not your friend. The purpose of its existence is to bind and restrict her breasts. Since you can't rip it off completely, take your hand and slide the straps off her shoulders. Then fold the cups down so her breasts are free under her shirt. Now that the bra is out of the way, you'll be able to rub her breasts and squeeze her nipples with ease, and she can still get...
Better sleep courtesy of getting naked can help calm your st..
Better sleep courtesy of getting naked can help calm your stress levels, making you less likely to experience anxiety, and could boost your mental health. Couples who sleep together nude are more likely to have sex and it makes sense that going sans underwear may also have a similar effect. Skin-to-skin contact releases oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding. Not to mention that there’s some very tantalizing ...
Sex isn’t meant to be sterile, or neat, or organized, or lin..
Sex isn’t meant to be sterile, or neat, or organized, or linear. Sex is sex. It’s a free for all. It’s all over the place. Sex is about feeling and connecting and playing and enjoying. That’s what makes it so much fun. It’s the one place where you get to throw off the shackles (or put on the shackles, you kinky thing you) of daily life and be free. So, to carry the slowness into your sexual exploration… ...
Get into a comfortable position (for you and her) when you’r..
Get into a comfortable position (for you and her) when you’re getting ready to go down on her. You want everything about how you prepare to sub-communicate to her “I am sitting down to my favourite meal in the world… I’ll be here for a while so don’t mind me. You just sit back and relax.” If you contort your body into an awkward position that will inevitably make you cramp up, not only will it hurt your n...
Breathing is foundational for anal, prostate, and pelvic flo..
Breathing is foundational for anal, prostate, and pelvic floor play. If you hold your breath the entire time, a few things can happen, First, your body is tricked into the "fight or flight" response. Basically, it thinks you are being chased by a bear, and that is not the physiological response you want to have during anal play. You don’t want to clench your anus when your prostate is being stimulated, yo...
A woman with strong PCs can grasp her partner's penis and pl..
A woman with strong PCs can grasp her partner's penis and play with it by contracting and releasing her muscles, taking lovemaking beyond everyday sex and into the territory of the Kama Sutra. Without Kegels the PCs are flabby. Period. You can practice Kegels while driving, standing in line or lying on the sofa watching television. Varying your position from sitting, to standing, to lying down over the course of...
Another deadening effect on a relationship results from fall..
Another deadening effect on a relationship results from falling into routine. One reason Valentine’s Day tends to be so romantic is that we think outside the box and break our usual habits. Anything from going out to dinner to planning a short trip can enliven us. When we are open to new experiences, we resist the lure of doing what’s familiar, therefore losing our spontaneity. Make sure to take time to engage in...
Our bodies are these gorgeous, intimate vessels that move an..
Our bodies are these gorgeous, intimate vessels that move and sway with each step and experience. When we disrobe for ourselves, partners, check-ups, live drawings, or naked swims, we are fully present with our vulnerabilities, insecurities, confidence, and history and this can be unbelievably scary. This is unfortunate as nudity is quite the gift to the human experience. Nudity is a great tool in self-love and bod...
If you're not familiar with the joy of butt plugs, allow me ..
If you're not familiar with the joy of butt plugs, allow me to introduce you to a versatile toy you can enjoy regardless of gender, orientation, or genitalia. If you have a prostate, butt plugs can stimulate it, if you have a vagina, a butt plug can create incredibly pleasurable pressure on the back vaginal wall. Not to mention that the anus is also surrounded by nerve endings. Butt plugs are wonderful toys that...
Every woman is different and has different erogenous zones. ..
Every woman is different and has different erogenous zones. Some women may like a lot of attention spent on their nipples, others would love for you to spend hours kissing their thighs. Whatever parts she loves to have touched, nibbled or kissed, start there and take time making your way to her actual vagina last. Work your way down (or up) paying attention to what is getting the biggest response. Which leads me ...
No one will deny that exercise does the mind and body good. ..
No one will deny that exercise does the mind and body good. When you work out, your body releases endorphins, which can trigger positive sensations. But do you know what else can make you feel good? Enjoying a little solo play. Masturbation is a healthy and safe way not only to turn yourself on, but also to relieve stress, improve your sleep, and release built-up sexual tension. In fact, solo play has infinite healt...
It’s very erotic having a threesome with two men and they do..
It’s very erotic having a threesome with two men and they don’t have to be bisexual to do it. There are a lot of Hetero men that enjoy taking turns and even DP and DVPing a women. There are different variations of positions that you can try with two men and one woman. My favorite is the double stuff. If you really want to go whole-hog with your MMF threesome, you can aim for double penetration. One guy lays on hi...
Enjoying the hot tub in the snow after a long day of snowmob..
Enjoying the hot tub in the snow after a long day of snowmobiling. Loving Yellowstone
The creative process can be very stimulating:)
The creative process can be very stimulating:)
How will anyone ever know what they like until they take a r..
How will anyone ever know what they like until they take a risk and try new things. Using my body to create a little piece of art was freeing in the way that as I made the art the fact that I was naked escaped me. I was too distracted by what was in front of me to worry about the way I looked anymore.
Any new project should be taken seriously with a sprinkle of..
Any new project should be taken seriously with a sprinkle of silly
Using acrylic water based paints and a prepped canvas I used..
Using acrylic water based paints and a prepped canvas I used my body to make some art. Typically this type of set up is used for couples who want to have sex on the canvas but I wanted to try to see what I could create on my own.
Tonight I decided to try to make some body art on canvas
Tonight I decided to try to make some body art on canvas
Bring another man to bed—in spirit, anyway Relay some other ..
Bring another man to bed—in spirit, anyway Relay some other guy’s observation about her. It’s unfair, but compliments from others are often more believable than compliments from you. See, she expects you to gush, but “the third party has no vested interest. That’s what gives it believability.” Tell her she’s beautiful, and then say, “Hey, listen to this ...” and follow up with a kind word from someo...
Avoid exaggerating, the more a compliment is tailored to tha..
Avoid exaggerating, the more a compliment is tailored to that specific woman, the more intimate and effective it is. Use sensory words, like, ‘Your breasts are so soft,’ ‘I love the way you smell,’ ‘I love the sound of your voice,. The more detailed your praise, the more personal it is to her and it shows her that you derive pleasure from her body, not just from any naked body.
Sometimes words can sound really cheesy and hard to believe...
Sometimes words can sound really cheesy and hard to believe. Actions are more believable. If he can't keep his hands off you, I think that's the biggest compliment, really.
