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So there you are, lying in bed with a beautiful, naked woman..

So there you are, lying in bed with a beautiful, naked woman. Before you speak, pounce, or babble incoherently, remember this: Not all compliments are created equal. And any woman gracious enough to bare her glorious body in your presence deserves more than a perfunctory “You’re so hot” between love grunts.

Dressing up is fun, especially if you’re going to take it al..

Dressing up is fun, especially if you’re going to take it all off slowly.

You might think “anal play” means sticking stuff up your but..

You might think “anal play” means sticking stuff up your butt, and while that’s certainly part of it, anal play can encompass many a butt-centric sexual activity, like rimming, or anal massage. You can totally engage in anal foreplay without having to have penetration of any kind (be it a toy, a finger, a dildo, a penis) go up you your partner’s bum. Whether you’re just looking to change things up, or just ...

Don’t yuck anyone’s yum! you might be surprised when a partn..

Don’t yuck anyone’s yum! you might be surprised when a partner tells you a kink or fantasy, but talk it out, think about it, and engage if you feel comfortable. It might just become yours too!

Women get sexually bored a lot faster than men. If sex becom..

Women get sexually bored a lot faster than men. If sex becomes repetitive, over time that woman will lose interest in having sex with that partner, Women crave very high amounts of sexual novelty. Women need a lot more time to build up arousal than men do. What you can do as a partner is to start the foreplay, not one or two hours before sex but 24 hours. Recount a sexual encounter and give her little bits of that me...

Sex is an important part of a man’s life and health, and age..

Sex is an important part of a man’s life and health, and age doesn’t have to change that. The most important key to a healthy sex life at any decade is communication with your partner. Honest, open communication about what feels good, what doesn’t feel good, and how you make each other feel is the key to better sex. Finding out what those are via communication can lead to one of life’s greatest pleasures.

Masturbation releases chemicals in your body that relieve st..

Masturbation releases chemicals in your body that relieve stress and just plain make you feel good. A common misconception some people have is if they’re in a relationship, they shouldn’t masturbate. First, it’s important to talk to your partner about how he feels about masturbation and to be clear on what is and isn’t OK. Some couples even try masturbating in front of each other. Not only can this teach you ...

When we are told we cannot do something that we want to do ,..

When we are told we cannot do something that we want to do ,even if we do not have a particularly strong desire for it , those restrictions make us want to do it even more. Violating taboos creates risk ,and taking on a certain amount of risk can heighten arousal and excitement. This is precisely why public sex is another extraordinarily popular fantasy. The thrill of potentially being caught in the act amps up the i...

Many of us have to unlearn shame around sexuality, and every..

Many of us have to unlearn shame around sexuality, and everyone’s barometer for what constitutes “kink” is different. Before bringing up anything to a partner, know that your interests and preferences are valid. Come from a place of vulnerability. Getting it out that you’re feeling vulnerable usually invites your partner into holding a compassionate space for you. Say something along the lines of, “There’...

CUCKOLDING IS OFTEN SEEN FROM THE OUTSIDE AS A KINK FOUNDED ..

CUCKOLDING IS OFTEN SEEN FROM THE OUTSIDE AS A KINK FOUNDED IN HUMILIATION AND INADEQUACY BUT THE REALITY IS FAR DIFFERENT FOR MOST COUPLES ACTIVELY INVOLVED IN IT. cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. Contrary to popular myth (especially as expressed through porn), sexual inadequacy is only...

Hope you have a very merry Christmas 🎄🎁 what are your sexual..

Hope you have a very merry Christmas 🎄🎁 what are your sexual resolutions for next year ? Be more sexually experimental? Be more confident in the bedroom? Take more sexual risks with your partner? Read at least one sex novel? Watch a type of porn you’ve never seen before? Try new locations ? Try new roll play characters? Learn new knots ?

Sexy undergarments aren’t just for women. If you find the ri..

Sexy undergarments aren’t just for women. If you find the right fit, you can really turn her on. (If you've never tried low-rise briefs, I highly recommend them!)

If you were sexing with me what would you say or send ?

Sexting is all about the build up. Begin the conversation wi..

Sexting is all about the build up. Begin the conversation with an opening that indicates you’re ready to play without revealing too much. Sending a selfie of your cleavage, or hand grabbing your bulge for example, with a simple message of ‘Hey you’ can grab their attention while making your intentions clear of what this thread can become if the person is willing to answer back. I’m always telling people whe...

When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in co..

When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role. Your role is that of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your words, photos, and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.

Some dirty photos sprinkled in

Angles are key when taking photos and recording video during..

Angles are key when taking photos and recording video during sexting. The visuals are the bread and butter of sexy texting and can make or break the experience. Take photos from angles that only reveal the erogenous zones of the body (mouth, neck, bust, thighs, abdomen, booty, feet, pelvic area). Just how provocative you get with the photos is up to you. Taking photos where the camera is angled from above and looki...

Sexting is an art. Written details coupled with dirty clips ..

Sexting is an art. Written details coupled with dirty clips :)

Chill-axing

Some people aren't naturally wet, and that is okay. Guess wh..

Some people aren't naturally wet, and that is okay. Guess what? That’s why we have lube. And if you are wet, add some more. Just be sure to select a lube option that won't damage condoms or sex toys during use. The general rule here is oil-based can break down condoms, and silicone-based can wear on silicone toys.

Have the kind of sex you enjoy It sounds simple. Obvious, ev..

Have the kind of sex you enjoy It sounds simple. Obvious, even. But there is a socially taught method to sex that many people feel they need to follow. This method doesn’t work for all people, so it’s worth pointing out that the only sex you “should” have, is the kind you like.

If you’re nervous, a typical response is that your body will..

If you’re nervous, a typical response is that your body will stiffen up. In a sexual setting, this can create difficulties. Holding tension in your pelvic floor and anus means penetrative sex might be more painful.

Sex does not begin and end in the bedroom. Do your best to k..

Sex does not begin and end in the bedroom. Do your best to keep sexual communication up throughout the day, especially if you have plans to get it on after work. Send out a sexy text around lunch. Forward over a suggestive meme. Let your partner know you’re thinking about them in that way, even when you’re apart. Flirtation is important to maintain within a relationship. It’s a fun way to punctuate the day. Hol...

Sure, the idea of scheduling sex doesn’t sound super hot, bu..

Sure, the idea of scheduling sex doesn’t sound super hot, but it can help keep things on track. Life is stressful. People get busy. And too often, sex is one of the first things to get bumped lower on our list of priorities. Putting sex on the calendar can help reposition it back on top. Besides, knowing what’s waiting for you later on gives you something fun to look forward to throughout the day.

Using emojis that are known to serve as sexual innuendos can..

Using emojis that are known to serve as sexual innuendos can help set intentions without saying a word, the eggplant and banana are often used to represent the penis. A peach represents the booty. A pussy cat references to vagina. The emoji with the tongue sticking out indicates desire, and the raindrops indicate wetness or ejaculate. Knowing emoji sex code can help maintain a code of conduct if you’re sexting in p...

Talking dirty is the guiding light of sexting. The words you..

Talking dirty is the guiding light of sexting. The words you use in your messages paint a visual of the fantasy that’s unfolding. You can describe what you’re wearing. You can ask him for naughty photos to make comments about his body and the freaky things you’ll do to him. You can describe how your body is reacting to what he’s sexting you. Your words can also give instruction on what you want your partner t...

If you hate the way condoms make you feel during sex, you mi..

If you hate the way condoms make you feel during sex, you might not be wearing the right ones. When picking a condom, find one that fits like a glove, and look for rubbers that are ribbed or ultra-thin. Condoms are highly effective at preventing pregnancy and STIs, so it's worth finding the one that feels best for you.

The more specific you are in your sexy details, the better y..

The more specific you are in your sexy details, the better you and your partner will be able to visualize what you’re fantasizing about, and the easier it will be to keep the conversation going

Do not underestimate the power of a sexy meme or GIF that is..

Do not underestimate the power of a sexy meme or GIF that is in alignment with your mindset about sex. Use memes and GIFs to supplement what you’ve already written. They add more content into the conversation and give you a break from having to be original.

What Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is the central point of ..

What Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is the central point of pleasure on a woman’s body. While there are nerves throughout the vulva and inside the vagina, this is where the pleasure center is actually situated.