So I get this question a lot: how to talk to a girl like me ..
🕑 Added 2023-04-03 16:08:12 +0000 UTC
So I get this question a lot: how to talk to a girl like me in the gym.
It's difficult to do these days because of air pods, we're all wearing them and there's this big barrier. I'll take them out if someone is talking to me, but it's more of an interruption because of that.
But honestly, the most successful person was a very direct and confident guy. He was tall and skinny and not from the area. Venice Gold's is a tourist spot so a lot of people from out of town come to work out and gawk. There's a decent amount of FBB fans who are just sightseeing because there's no where else on earth we'll you see so many jacked women in one room... outside of a competition or so.
This guy looked a bit like a tall Rick Moranis. He walked up to me and smiled as I finished a set with the leg press machine. I took out my air pods and gave him a look that was probably just somewhat friendly. I wasn't annoyed.. just fatigued after the set.
He said "I'm sorry to interrupt... I'm just absolutely stunned by your legs. They are HUGE! You look like you can squat a truck!"
On paper, you could imagine that this line might flop but it TOTALLY worked on me. Of course I want to be told that I look big and powerful. His body language was casual and he was smiling and confident. He expected to stay there and get a reply. This is huge, as many times guys will talk from too far away or they'll say something, but their body language implies that they're going to move away soon.
I said thanks and probably blushed a bit. He continued and complimented my thighs even more, saying that they must feel incredibly strong and firm when they're massaged. I smirked and told him that he can feel for himself. I pointed my toes and flexed my quad and he touched it with his hand. Not quickly... he took his time, squeezed, and felt around it a bit. This wasn't his first rodeo with muscle worship.
Anyway it turned out that he was from out of town and headed to the airport. So our little chat ended there. But it's a great example on how to talk to a really muscular girl like me. Remember that this is our life. We want big muscles for the attention that we get. It's totally cool to compliment us on them and be impressed by them. Be direct and confident. Most of us are honestly a lot nerdier and more approachable than we might seem.
